If I wrote a Blog, would you read it?

Are blogs even a thing anymore? I feel like I’m a few years late on this one, but it took me that long to get the balls to start. I can’t help but think, that this could possible become the most expensive diary I’ve owned. Although, Ive used Facebook as a diary for years, and that’s cost me a lot of embarrassment.

I’m not completely sure what direction this website will go in. I just know I have a lot I want to talk about. Most of it will be lessons I learned, and steps I’ve taken to be less bitter and angry. I’m not going to bullshit you, it’s not an easy road, self improvement never is. I’ve spent many hours reading, listening to podcast, and really trying to get to know myself. The pay off is so worth it though. If I, the embarrassing hot mess on Facebook, can get my life together, so can you.


New Year Resolutions are a joke.

Every year, like clock work. People start planning a new life in December. With the thought, that a new year is a new beginning. New Year, new me bullshit. As if a day on the calendar is some magical reset button. We hear it all the time, next year, before my birthday, or I’ll start Monday. Why are we so consumed by the future, that we can’t live in the now? Putting your goals off until next month/tomorrow is hurting your growth.

What most people don’t realize, right now, is a good time to change. I don’t care if you ate the whole damn cake, and then decide you want to start eating better. You don’t have to wait for tomorrow, or next year. Stop making excuses to why your not going after the life you want. Do you want to look back and think ” I wish I started sooner ” ?

I wasted a lot of time over the years, thinking I needed to wait for the right time to do something. Even feeling like I haven’t done enough, since my time line didn’t match others. I’m telling you, time is bullshit. Your destiny, journey, fate, or whatever you believe, isn’t waiting til Monday.

You will never be prepared for what life brings you. You will never be able to control what happens, putting it off wont change that. Don’t buy into the ideal that time rules all. You don’t need to have it figured out by a certain age, or year. You just have to get started.